Having a baby with a rare, serious condition present at birth such as bladder exstrophy can be extremely stressful. It's hard for healthcare professionals to predict how successful surgery will be. So you're facing an unclear future for your child.
Depending on the surgery's outcome and the degree of bladder control after surgery, your child may face social challenges. For instance, your child may have trouble with body image. Your child also may be at risk of mental health conditions such as anxiety and depression. A social worker or a mental healthcare professional such as a therapist can offer your child and your family support in facing these challenges.
Some healthcare professionals recommend that all children with BEEC receive early counseling. They also recommend that these children and their families keep getting mental health support into adulthood.
You also may benefit from finding a support group of parents who are dealing with this condition. It can help to talk with others who have had experiences like yours and understand what you're going through.
It also may be helpful to keep in mind that children with bladder exstrophy have typical life expectancies. They also have a good chance of living full, productive lives with work, relationships and children of their own. If needed, fertility treatments such as assisted reproductive technology can help them achieve pregnancy.